Being an introvert is tough. We're made fun of. We're misunderstood. We're judged unfairly. We aren't invited to parties. The list could go on and on. It is a rough life as an introvert...ok, maybe I'm exaggerating a little. Maybe I'm over-reacting and over-generalizing. Although all of the criticism we introverts receive is unfair and often unwarranted, I do believe that there are things that we should do to help ourselves be successful...especially in the workplace. It is not enough, I believe, to accept the label of introvert and then begin to use it as an excuse to not excel...
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Putting Introverts In A Box
Since I've been writing about being an introvert here on my blog, I've received lots of comments and questions. The introverts quickly speak up to say that they relate to the things I write about. The extroverts speak up even quicker to criticize and try to move the spotlight back on them...which is where they're used to it being. :) The support has been amazing and I'm glad that the things I'm writing about are resonating with everyone. But, what is also happening is that I'm getting a lot of questions about introversion. From introverts, it tends to be questions...
Surprise! I’m An Introvert!
Over the past several years, many people have been surprised to find out that I'm an introvert. They see me speak in front of large crowds. I am often engaged in conversation when I'm at an event or gathering. I teach, lead small groups, train, lead meetings...and many other things that are traditionally only attributed to extroverts and their way of life. I have also been struck lately by the moments when I've heard someone say that they're an introvert and the shock that accompanies that revelation from the people around them. They are often surprised. I've even heard them...